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Wisdom quote from Frank Outlaw. Make sense?

I'm not a knowledgable person. I did a search on "character & destiny".... Ohh I see...... This wisdom quote was extended from a maxim: Character is Destiny, from Heraclitus, who wrote, some 2500 years ago. (Wow~)

What else have I got? There you go...........

1. There's a book called: Character Is Destiny: Inspiring Stories Every Young Person Should Know and Every Adult Should Remember



2. Another book: Character Is Destiny : The Value of Personal Ethics in Everyday Life



3. “Character determines destiny.” In other words, it is not what happens to us that matters, it is what we are able to make of our experiences. Good health and a fine education mean nothing if you are not capable of putting them to good use.

"...... Each of us determines our own character with every single decision we make. Whether you decide to help others or indulge yourself, whether you hone your analytical gifts through constant use or dull them with sloth, you are determining your character – and your destiny. "

4. 性格是怎样决定命运的？

一位日本的心理学大师说过一句话：心理变，态度亦变；态度变，行为亦变；行为变，习惯亦变；习惯变，人格亦变；人格变，命运亦变。换句话说，一个人要想运势好，他的性格首先要好。你不能总是让别人跟你在一起不舒服，这样做人就缺少亲和力，所以人在有自知之明之后能够像古人说得那样每日三省吾身很重要，不能总是自我感觉太好。自我感觉好的这种人其实很吃亏。　　

有一位朋友开车去上班，突然，马路上杀出一个醉汉拦住了他的车，非说撞了他并让下车道歉。这在以前，他会上去给醉汉两拳，这一次他却没有。想了想就下了车，和颜悦色地对醉汉说：“对不起，请你原谅我。”那位醉汉拍了拍他肩膀说：“哥们儿，冲你这句话，走人”。他回到车上，一点也没觉得受了委屈，反而有一种战胜自我的愉悦感。　　

其实，人是一条鱼，社会是一缸水，如果我们是一条热带鱼的话，那么我们必须要降自己的体温而不是希望水升温。生存是在有一定的素质后来适应社会的，现在让你低头你低不了，你就过不去，所以，一个有目标的人在坚持内心准则的情况下还要学会忍耐甚至是忍辱。

5. 性格能决定命运吗？

什么样的性格，就以什么样的方式去做事情，就会有什么样的结果，这些结果就构成了一个人的所谓命运。这与其说是性格决定命运，还不如说，一个人的处事态度和做事方式，决定着一个人的命运。

And many more.... you search yourself if you're interested. :)

At first I feel : Wah...... What a topic man...... (Or am I just 孤陋寡闻?? )
Then I got bored. Read no more.